KAHWIN ...

"Everyone around me is getting married. When is my turn?"

Dear sisters and brothers who didn't get married yet and afraid of what people may say about them.

Don't worry. Marriage is Rizq from ALLAH and He will surely grant it to when HE wills it and not when you want it. We plan better for us but HE plans the best among all.

Don’t care of what people may say about you, remember that Maryam 'alaiha assalam didn't get married and she is the only woman who has a whole Surah with her name!

So if not having a spouse is a defect,she wouldn't has been mentioned in Qur’an!

Not getting married is not a flaw or a defect but not maintaining chastity is.
The real defect is that a Muslim doesn't preserve their purity and chastity.

Be patient and be sure that ALLAH will reward you greatly for your patience at the end this Duniya is not about a spouse or getting married but about submitting your will peacefully to ALLAH and accept what ever HE decrees for you.

Be patient and believe in His timing. Faith in ALLAH includes faith in His timing. Whether it's now or later, ALLAH knows better..!!

-youth route- 

Kahwin itu fitrah manusia. Semua orang nak kahwin. Jodoh tu rahsia private and confidential Allah. Baik punyer rancangan dah DIA atur. So, jangan nak risau sangat la ye afiqah. Plan Allah plan yang terbaik. Mungkin dia nak bagi peluang untuk berbakti kepada mak abah and adik-adik. Who knows ? Sebab sabar Allah doctor as husband.. hahaha. Stay positive ! Have faith in Allah ! Allah knows best. :D

p/s: tolong habiskan master dulu ! jangan gatal nak fikir kahwin je ye afiqah saadon !!!! 

UJIAN HIDUP .

Assalamualaikum...

Haish! Dah lama tak bukak blog ni. Lama sangat.. Dalam jangka masa yang lama ni jugak, macam-macam benda berlaku dalam hidup aku.. Sesuatu yang aku tak pernah jangka akan berlaku. Betul lah. Qada' dan qadar Allah sangat surprise! Rasa cam mati hidup semula pun ada.. Lepas satu, satu masalah datang. Scene yang aku selalu tengok dalam drama tv.

" Dan sungguh, kami benar-benar akan menguji kamu sehingga Kami mengetahui orang yang benar-benar berjihad dan bersabar di antara kamu dan akan kami uji perihal kamu "

- Surah Muhammad, ayat 31-

Allah nak uji aku. Dia nak tengok tahap kesabaran aku. Dia nak tengok kesabaran aku. Dia nak bagi pahala sabar dan redha kat aku. Dan maybe aku dah jauh dari Dia. Dia nak tarik aku dekat dengan Dia balik.. Perit, sakit hati, sedih, terluka- semua perasaan yang menyakitkan aku rasa.. Tapi, bersangka baik dengan Allah..Allah knows best .!

" Tidak ada musibah yang menimpa (seseorang) kecuali dengan izin Allah; nescaya Allah akan memberi petunjuk kepada hati nya dan Allah mengetahui segala sesuatu "

- Surah al Tagabun, ayat 11-

Bila diuji, baru mintak tolong. Mintak petunjuk dan hidayah dari Dia.. Baru berdoa beria-ria.. Baru tersedar kepentingan doa.. Malunya.. (T_T)

" Dan apabila hamba-hamba Ku bertanya kepada mu (Muhammad) tentang Aku, maka sesungguhnya Aku dekat; Aku kabulkan permohonan orang yang berdoa apabila dia berdoa kepada- Ku. Hendaklah mereka itu memenuhi perintah- Ku dan beriman kepada-Ku agar mreka memperoleh kebenaran"

- Surah al Baqarah, ayat186-

Semoga ada hikmat yang besar disebalik ujian ini. :)

wassalam..