Sunday, 24 November 2013
KAHWIN ...
"Everyone around me is getting married. When is my turn?"
Dear sisters and brothers who didn't get married yet and afraid of what people may say about them.
Don't worry. Marriage is Rizq from ALLAH and He will surely grant it to when HE wills it and not when you want it. We plan better for us but HE plans the best among all.
Don’t care of what people may say about you, remember that Maryam 'alaiha assalam didn't get married and she is the only woman who has a whole Surah with her name!
So if not having a spouse is a defect,she wouldn't has been mentioned in Qur’an!
Not getting married is not a flaw or a defect but not maintaining chastity is.
The real defect is that a Muslim doesn't preserve their purity and chastity.
Be patient and be sure that ALLAH will reward you greatly for your patience at the end this Duniya is not about a spouse or getting married but about submitting your will peacefully to ALLAH and accept what ever HE decrees for you.
Be patient and believe in His timing. Faith in ALLAH includes faith in His timing. Whether it's now or later, ALLAH knows better..!!
-youth route-
Kahwin itu fitrah manusia. Semua orang nak kahwin. Jodoh tu rahsia private and confidential Allah. Baik punyer rancangan dah DIA atur. So, jangan nak risau sangat la ye afiqah. Plan Allah plan yang terbaik. Mungkin dia nak bagi peluang untuk berbakti kepada mak abah and adik-adik. Who knows ? Sebab sabar Allah doctor as husband.. hahaha. Stay positive ! Have faith in Allah ! Allah knows best. :D
p/s: tolong habiskan master dulu ! jangan gatal nak fikir kahwin je ye afiqah saadon !!!!
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